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Vol. VI, No. 12 1.
Hooray for Spain and Canada!
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4 July 2005
2. Chi Rho Greeting Cards
3. Have you seen the
"Family Stories" Video?
4. Gay/Lesbian Pride
Symbols: Rainbow Flag
5. "Christian with a Twist"
6. Sanctoral Cycle
7. Adam's Last Word
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This issue's Quotes:
"U.S. Census figures show that Massachusetts has the lowest divorce rate in the
country -- boasting more family stability than any of the 18 states that have
adopted constitutional bans on gay marriage. [T]here is no statistical validity
to the claim that allowing gays to marry has undermined the institution here."
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Welcome once again to the Chi Rho Connection, the
electronic newsletter of Chi Rho Press.
ChiRhoPress-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
1.
Hooray for Spain
and Canada!
Amazing news from Canada, where the lower house of Parliament passed same gender
marriage into law for the entire country. The upper house is expected to confirm
the new law this month.
And in Spain, where the same gender marriage law officially became law this
week. Same gender couples in Spain now have inheritance and adoption rights
equal to opposite gender couples. Spain becomes the third country, after the
kingdoms of The Netherlands and Belgium, and Canada is set to become the fourth
country to grant full marriage rights for same gender couples!
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2.
Chi Rho Greeting Cards
Chi Rho Cards: A line of Gay and Lesbian greeting cards from Chi Rho Press.
Take a look at the cards and read about and order them on the Chi Rho Press Web
site at
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/cards.html
With original artwork by talented New York artist Timothy Leetch, Chi Rho Cards
are designed by and for the Lesbian and Gay community. Chi Rho Cards are printed
on 100% recycled paper and are affordably priced, selling single cards (for
$1.49 each), in packs of five of one design (for $6.95), packs of ten of one
design (for $12.95), and in a sample pack of two of each of the eight cards (for
$16.95).
Women's Relationship Card. A religiously-themed card for a Lesbian couple,
suitable for Holy Unions, Anniversaries, legal marriages, or just to celebrate
their relationship.
Men's Relationship Card. A religiously-themed card for your favorite Gay male
couple, suitable for Holy Unions, Anniversaries, legal marriages, or just to
celebrate their relationship.
Lesbians' Anniversary Card. Two women, very much in love, silhouetted on a
seashore, make this a striking card for a Lesbian couple's anniversary.
Gay Men's Anniversary Card. An intimate scene of a Gay male couple's bathroom
decorates our card to celebrate your favorite Gay couple's anniversary.
All Purpose Anniversary Card. Our all purpose anniversary card is ideal to
celebrate anniversaries of relationships, employment, sobriety, or any other
special occasion.
Get Well Card. Send our little bear to cheer up a friend who is ill, and speed
their recovery.
Sympathy Card. An empty chair poignantly calls to mind the loss of a loved one,
through death or divorce.
Inside: "Grieving With You at Your Loss. You are in my Prayers."
Thank You Card. Our leaping figure celebrates all that we have to be thankful
for. Inside: blank, write your own specific message.
All Chi Rho Cards measure 4-1/4" wide by 5-1/2" high and come with plain white
envelopes. Our packaging isn't fancy, to save you money.
Order your selection of Chi Rho Cards now! Single cards are $1.49 each, packs of
five of one design are $6.95, packs of ten of one design are $12.95, and a
sample pack of two of each of the eight cards is $16.95; plus shipping and
handling.
Find them at
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3.
Have
you seen the "Family Stories" Video?
We have a video in stock featuring Roberta Kreider and Mary Lou Wallner, with an
introduction by the Rev.
Peter J. Gomes. 'Family Stories: Journeys of Spirit in Mixed Orientation
Families' was produced by John Davis and is available for $26.95, plus shipping
and handling.
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/product_details/VideoRevFamilyStories.htm
'Family Stories' presents the journeys of two women whose lives have changed
dramatically in working through issues of sexuality and religion. The untimely
deaths of family members (one a gay brother, the other a lesbian daughter) lead
them to confront their feelings of confusion and hypocrisy. They provide hope
for families, as well as religious and social organizations, by clearly
demonstrating how minds can and do change.
Roberta Kreider compiled and edited the book "From Wounded Hearts: Faith Stories
of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered People and Those Who Love Them,"
and the anthology carried by Chi Rho Press, "Together in
Love: Faith Stories of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Couples." She is
a 70-something year old, heterosexual Mennonite woman living in rural
Pennsylvania with her husband Harold, a retired minister in the Mennonite
church.
Mary Lou Wallner is an active member of Soulforce, and a frequent speaker across
the country. Mary Lou resides in suburban Chicago with her husband Bob, and is
completing a book of coping tools for Christians who learn of a gay or lesbian
loved one in their family.
She is also an R.N. and runs a free HIV clinic.
The Rev. Peter J. Gomes is the author of "The Good Book:
Reading the Bible with Mind and Heart." He has served as Plummer Professor of
Christian Morals at Harvard University and minister in The Memorial Church since
1974.
'Family Stories' is in VHS format, color, and 35 minutes, and sells for $26.95,
plus shipping and handling.
See it on our Web page at
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/product_details/VideoRevFamilyStories.htm
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4.
Gay/Lesbian Pride Symbols: The Rainbow Flag
Happy Gay/Lesbian Pride Month! Ken, from MCC San Diego, CA, USA, sent this to
another list we are on and I thought I would pass it on. Thanks, Ken!
History of the Rainbow Flag
Gilbert Baker, a San Francisco artist, designed the first Rainbow flag in 1978.
He created the flag in response to a local activist's call for the need of a
community symbol.
Baker designed a flag with eight stripes: pink, red, orange, yellow, green,
blue, indigo, and violet. According to Baker, those colors represented,
respectively: sexuality, life, healing, sun, nature, art, harmony, and spirit.
Baker dyed and sewed the material for the first flag himself, in the true spirit
of Betsy Ross. Baker soon was approached San Francisco's Paramount Flag Company
about mass producing and selling his "gay flag."
Unfortunately, Baker had hand-dyed all the colors and since the color "hot pink"
was not commercially available, mass production of his eight-stripe version
became impossible. The flag was thus reduced to seven stripes.
In November 1978, San Francisco's gay community was stunned when the city's
first openly gay supervisor, Harvey Milk, was assassinated. Wishing to
demonstrate the gay community's strength and solidarity in the aftermath of this
tragedy, the
1979 SF Pride Parade Committee decided to use Baker's flag.
The committee eliminated the indigo stripe so they could divide the colors
evenly among the parade route, three colors on one side of the street and three
on the other.
Soon the six colors were incorporated into a six striped version that became
popularized, and that today is recognized by the International Congress of Flag
Makers.
Chi Rho Press has a LGBT flag in stained glass available for sale. See it at
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/stainedglass.html
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5.
"Christian with a
Twist"
Here is a selection from our second major book of reflections, "Christian with a
Twist: Reflections on Scripture that are a bit more inclusive, a bit more
relevant, and with a bit of a bite," by the late William Gaston.
"Christian with a Twist" is available for $19.95 each,
$14.95 each for six or more copies, plus shipping and handling. You can read
more about it and order it at
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/product_details/BookRevChristianWithATwist.htm
As the subtitle suggests, Bill's writing has a bit of a bite, and we believe you
will enjoy his sharp, but loving take on Scripture, life, and faith.
Here is a selection entitled "The Gifts of Wisdom" from the Ordinary Time
section of "Christian with a Twist."
Please read Proverbs 8:1-4, 22-31
I love today's passage. It gives me a chance to vent about one of my pet peeves.
Oh no, not again, you may be thinking.
But seriously, I think that wisdom and understanding are too much ignored and
even sometimes discouraged in our religious lives. Many people seem to park
their brains outside the church door, and I wonder sometimes if they remember to
pick them up on their way out.
That is harsh and negative, I know, but so much talk of religion these days is
negative. Our religious institutions have to accept some of the responsibility
for that. I do not understand the conflict between science and religion. What
better way is there to honor God's Creation than to study the intricacies of it?
And does not each new thing that we discover lead to even more awe and wonder
about the complexity of what God has done?
Today's passage says that God created wisdom at the very beginning of Creation,
that wisdom was there when each and every thing came into being. Of course we
can never understand it all, but it is all real and all of it is knowable, if
only to God. There is a bit of God in each of us and we are each a part of all
that is.
We consist of body, mind, and spirit. We have hospitals and health clubs to
maintain our bodies. We have schools and libraries to enrich our minds. We have
churches and scripture to support our spirits. We would not think of accepting
the level of health care or education of Jesus'
time, but somehow we think that the level of spiritual development that was good
enough then should be good enough now.
Another of today's suggested readings is John 16:12-15 in which Jesus promises
to send to us the Spirit of Truth that will teach us what he could not in his
time and place. I think that the Spirit of Truth that Jesus promised is not
unrelated to the Wisdom spoken of in Proverbs. I think that God desires that all
of Creation be alive and growing, certainly our part of it which God created in
God's own image.
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6.
Sanctoral Cycle
As a regular feature in the Chi Rho Connection, we are offering up traditional
saints listed in the 2005 Liturgical Calendar and Lectionary from today until
our next scheduled electronic newsletter.
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Thurs., Jun 30, St. Paul. Whole conversions: St. Paul complains in his letter to
the Christians at the church of Philippi that all seek the things that are their
own, and not the things that are of Christ. See if these words apply to you, and
resolve to give yourself to God without reserve. "Wake up, O sleeper, rise from
the dead, and Christ will shine on you" (Ephesians 5:14).
Fri., Jul. 1, St. Isidore of Madrid. Simple faith: St.
Isidore became a saint because he preferred prayer with God to conversation with
other people, and because he trusted the divine power and goodness rather than
any human aid. "Commit your way to the Lord; trust in God and God will do this;
God will make your righteousness shine like the dawn, the justice of your cause
like the noonday sun" (Psalm 37:5).
Sat., Jul. 2, Bd. Peter of Luxembourg. Self-denial: Bd.
Peter teaches us how, by self-denial, rank, riches, the highest dignities, and
all this world can give may serve to make a saint, and that in extreme youth.
"And Jesus said to his disciples, 'If anyone would come after me, he must deny
himself and take up his cross and follow me'" (Matthew 16:24).
Sun., Jul. 3, St. Thomas (Patron saint: architects). The triumph of faith:
Discard all notions, doubts, and uncertainties and learn to overcome old
weaknesses as did St. Thomas, who "by his ignorance instructed the ignorant, and
by his incredulity served the faith of all ages." "By his confession and
touching of the wounds he taught us what we ought to believe. He saw one thing
and believed another. His eyes beheld Christ alone, but by his faith he
confessed God," St. Augustine.
Mon., Jul. 4, St. Elizabeth of Portugal (Patron saint:
jealousy). Daily attendance at church: In the Eucharist, St. Elizabeth daily
found strength to bear suspicion and cruelty patiently; and by that same holy
sacrifice her innocence was proved. By neglecting opportunities of daily
communion and church fellowship we lose opportunities for gaining strength.
Tues., Jul. 5, St. Antony Zaccaria. Fulfilling "apostle-ship:" By his following
of St. Paul's example in going out to all people, and by the use he made of the
Apostle's letters, St. Antony Zaccaria gives us an example in turn. We must
always be ready to help our follow persons in every way that we can; and we
should constantly re-read and ponder Paul's expositions of the Christian faith
and life.
Wed., Jul. 6, St. Maria Goretti. Triumph over sin:
Maria Goretti had led a very ordinary life. But in spite of her simplicity, her
great faith and love for God made her truly extraordinary. This was the triumph
of the little girl who loved God and hated sin.
Thurs., Jul. 7, St. Arsenius. Silence: Let us learn from the example of St.
Arsenius that it is not enough to punish our bodies; we must also keep a careful
watch over our hearts. Those who attend to the exterior alone are like statues
that shine on the outside with gold and polish, but inside are full of dirt and
rubbish. "God knows how much I love the brethren, but I cannot be with God and
people at the same time; so I will not leave God to be with them," St. Arsenius.
Fri., Jul. 8, St. Odo of Canterbury. Brotherly
corrections: In correcting we should use all possible gentleness and meekness,
always remembering that, if similarly tempted, we should ourselves have fallen
yet more gravely.
Sat., Jul. 9, St. Veronica Giulani. Devotion to the
Passion: "Blessed be God! Everything seems little that is suffered for God's
love. Blessed be the simple Cross! Blessed be pure suffering!" St. Veronica
Giulani.
St. Veronica teaches us that it is honorable and just to deny our own natural
inclinations by being lovers of the Cross!
Sun., Jul. 10, St. Alban (Patron saint: refugees).
Selflessness: When a persecution of the Christians in England broke out, and a
certain cleric flying for his life took refuge in Alban's house. Alban sheltered
him, and after some days, moved by his example, he received baptism. Later on,
when the governor's emissaries came to search the house, Alban disguised himself
in the cloak of his guest and gave himself up in his place. He was dragged
before the judge, scourged, and, when he would not deny his faith, condemned to
death.
Mon., Jul. 11, St. Benedict (Patron saint: kidney disease sufferers). Power of
prayer: In all of the saints' lives, one thing is common to all of
them: they never feared to do any work, no matter how menial or tiring, because
they distrusted "self"
and relied wholly on the power of prayer for support and assistance. "Whatever
good work you begin to do, first ask God earnestly to bring it to a good
conclusion," St. Benedict.
Tues., Jul. 12, St. John of Gualbert. Forgiving your
enemies: St. John of Gualbert's defining moment of heroism came when he forgave
his enemies. We learn from him to never resolve our issues of anger or ill
treatment by attempting to revenge ourselves in deed, in word, or in thought. "I
cannot refuse what you ask of Christ's name. I grant you your life and I give
you my friendship. Pray that God may forgive me my sins," St. John of Gualbert.
Wed., Jul. 13, St. Brigid of Kildare (Patron saint:
healers). Mary as our role model: We all have to seek to resemble the mother of
Jesus in purity of heart. This grace St. Brigid's prayers have obtained in a
wonderful degree for the daughters of her native land (Ireland) and she will
never fail to ask it of God for all those who turn to her. "If you love Mary and
wish to please her, make her your model," St.
Bernard.
Thurs., Jul. 14, St. Camillus de Lellis (Patron saint:
hospitals). Prayers for the sick: St. Camillus saw the sick as living images of
Christ, and by ministering to them in this spirit atoned for the sins of his
youth, led a life precious in merit, and from a troublesome soldier became a
gentle, loving spirit. "Charity does not seek its own convenience. We must give
the spur to this jade of a body of ours, to make it trot on and get forward. The
good servant of the sick dies in the hospital," St. Camillus.
Fri., Jul. 15, St. Henry the Emperor. Offerings: St.
Henry gave up and deprived himself of many things that his offerings could
enrich the house of God. We spend money on ourselves and leave Jesus in poverty
and neglect. "For here in the church all our wealth is treasured; here lies all
our hope," St. John Chrysostom.
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year's Sanctoral Cycle, at this link:
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7.
Adam's Last Word
I am sorry for the delay in getting this edition of the Chi Rho Connection out a
few days late.
And happy Fourth of July for our readers here in the United States!
Would we not all have something to celebrate if the United States followed
Holland, Belgium, Spain, and Canada in granting marriage rights to same gender
couples! Unfortunately, our current government feels just the opposite and works
actively against LGBT people and our equal rights. They need our prayers for
justice to be done in the United States, just as we send up to God prayers of
thanksgiving for Spain and Canada.
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Well, we have added two new Christian music albums to our Web site, "I Am Not
Ashamed" tape and CD by David North and the Gospel Celebration, and "Jesus is
Lord of All" tape by Witness. There is some wonderful music here and I encourage
you to order both of these albums.
See the description of the albums on our Web site at:
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/product_details/AudioRevNotAshamed.htm
and
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/product_details/AudioRevLordOfAll.htm
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And please check out the Chi Rho Cards! Our line of greeting cards, by the
talented New York artist Timothy Leetch, are now available. See the descriptions
of the cards on our Web site at:
http://www.chirhopress.com/products/cards.html.
Order some cards today!
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Have a wonderful summer!
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Gracia y paz,
R. Adam DeBaugh, Director, Adam@ChiRhoPress.com.
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